This one is certainly for the LADIES!
“He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.” Prov.18:22
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Finding “Mr “Right” was never meant to be a woman’s job. So how can you be found if it’s not up to you? How will you know when he shows up?
These are truly the questions of the century for every Christian woman. Well, with a little observation of these unique hook ups, I believe there are a few things we can stand to learn.
Below are 21 relationship characteristics that could help you know if you have met “Mr. “Right.” If you have at minimum, all of the *required points, it is possible you just may have met him! At the very least, it’s worth seeing what the next 6-12 months has in store for you! Time will ALWAYS work in your favor in this regard.
The cornerstone scriptures for all of these points are really very basic:
The Tree and Its Fruit- Matt. 7:15-20
15 “Beware of false prophets who come disguised as harmless sheep but are really vicious wolves. 16 You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thorn-bushes, or figs from thistles? 17 A good tree produces good fruit, and a bad tree produces bad fruit. 18 A good tree can’t produce bad fruit, and a bad tree can’t produce good fruit. 19 So every tree that does not produce good fruit is chopped down and thrown into the fire. 20 Yes, just as you can identify a tree by its fruit, so you can identify people by their actions.
“You will know them by their FRUIT”
It is best that his fruit be found in agreement with God’s word. However, Amos 3:3 says, “Can two walk together, except they agree?”
It is certain the world turns and evolves upon this very passage that speaks of AGREEMENT. Agreement is not characterized by what is considered holy or profane, people will grow together in a form of harmony in whatever they find agreement in. Although, let’s face it, the word of God was not only given as principles for life it was given for the sake of SALVATION through Jesus Christ and that life is illustrated in His word. So if we are to walk in agreement with anyone, it is wise and profitable to have your lives fragrant with the faith, hope and love that is found in presence of God from now and on into eternity. This is truly the only agreement and fruit that can stand the test of time and Mr. Right should be bringing it!
Okay! Here we Go! How to know if Mr. Right has found YOU? ALL THE BEST!
*1. You will not be looking for him or expecting him at the moment you meet
2. It seems possible He could have been in your life a lot sooner or he may have been in your life all along but you never noticed him
*3. You feel you are just friends however, he is VERY clear about what he wants with you
*4. You are attracted to what’s in his HEART and he is attached to what’s in Your HEART… first and foremost
*5. You can be YOU around him
*6. You feel safe, secure and at home with him. He has a vision for life and is in the midst of fulfilling it. You sense he’s hoping you will want to be a part of that vision.
*7. He has a “precious approach” with you in how he cares for and protect you
8. He doesn’t try to impress, it is clear “what you see is what you get” with him
9. What pleases You…pleases him
*10. He has strong family values and wants you a part of his family vision
*11. He is a believer in Jesus Christ and pursues godly morals and values
*12. He clearly adores EVERYTHING about you. You realize you have nothing to be ashamed of with him.
*13. There is a striking contrast in character and nature from him and the “other guys” you’ve dated
*14. You really ARE attracted to him, he was just so out of the box at the initial meeting that you never considered how you really felt about him
*15. You believe if you lost him it would be nearly impossible to meet someone like him again
*16. You feel very blessed and fortunate to possess his unmerited love and affection…you are grateful.
*17. As far as dating goes…you feel you have entered into your “Sabbath Rest” with him…You are ready to sit back and rest in the peace and joy you find in him
*18. You guys know how to have FUN together and even if you’re not doing anything…you are content just knowing each other is around
*19. You are very forgiving and understanding of on another’s flaws
*20. You sense God orchestrating events so your relationship can be nurtured and grow
*21 He makes you want to be a better person for him and with him
Karen Gaithers-Life Discipleship 