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1. The #1 Assignment of Dating is to determine MARRIAGE
2. Marry someone you Love Unconditionally and Trust as your Best Friend.
3. Marry someone you Like not someone you Need.
Example:
You May NEED
• A Companion
• Financial Support
• Parent for your kids or an Escort with your friends
You Should LIKE
• Your Companion for a LIFE-TIME
• The way you AGREE in Financial Plans
• That your Kids Love the Way Your Mate TREATS YOU or the way your friends RESPECT Your Mate
4. Date with a 12 MONTH EVALUATION PLAN according to the Biblical Numerical System.
a. 1 = The unity between God the Father and His Son Jesus (John 10:30) – This month “Determine if you both walk in agreement in your relationship with Jesus Christ”
b. 2= Conveys the meaning of a union, division or the verification of facts by witnesses. – This month “See what each of your family and friends think of your mate.”
c. 3= The number 3 is used 467 times in the Bible. It pictures completeness, though to a lesser degree than 7. – This month “Your relationship should start feeling a seasoning taking place – toward togetherness or separateness.”
d. 4= Derives its meaning from creation. On the fourth day of what is called ‘creation week’ God completed the material universe. On this day he brought into existence our sun, the moon, and all the stars (Genesis 1:14 – 19). – This month “Your relationship should begin building upon the practical things that makes a solid union.”
e. 5= Symbolizes God’s grace, goodness and favor toward humans and is mentioned 318 times in Scripture (John 1:16). This month – “Should begin to recognize or sense God’s Grace and Favor upon your union…or you recognize you are stagnate and repeating same issues with no resolve that moves you forward”
f. 6= Symbolizes man and human weakness, the evils of Satan and the manifestation of sin. Man was created on the sixth day. Men are appointed 6 days to labor. – This month “You recognize one another flaws and commit to continue to love one another unconditionally or you experience a selfish love between you that must be contended with.”
g. 7= Seven is the number of completeness and perfection (both physical and spiritual). – This month “Fact: What you See is What you are Getting…Like it?”
h. 8= Represents a new beginning, meaning a new order or creation, and man’s true ‘born again’ event when he is resurrected from the dead into eternal life. – This month “You both know…THIS IS THE ONE or THIS IS NOT THE ONE and everyone can see where your relationship is headed…Toward Life of Death”
i. 9= Symbolizes divine completeness or conveys the meaning of finality. – This month “Time to talk MARRIAGE or Can You?”
j. 10= God gave the 10 Commandments to man. Ten therefore represents man’s responsibility to keep the commandments. – This month “Time to redefine the terms for a NEW relationship”
k. 11= Symbolize disorder, chaos and judgment. In the Bible, 11 is used twenty-four times and “11th” can be found 19 times. Coming after 10 (which represents law and responsibility), the number eleven represents the opposite – the irresponsibility of breaking the Law, which brings disorder and judgment. – This month, Personal reality check…“It’s either working or its NOT” Decide what’s wrong and if you both are ready to fix it…NOW not later”
l. 12= Considered a perfect number, is that it symbolizes God’s power and authority, as well as serving as a perfect governmental foundation. – This month “High Time to DECIDE if you will marry or not…or cut it off” Plans for engagement should be underway!
5. NEVER let the wisdom of the world replace the Wisdom of God. Remember: A true “Godly Relationship” will align you more and more with God’s will and ways.
6. Let the love between you and your mate be a Guiding Light to God before others
7. Enjoy the sweet blessings of your LOVE Relationship (in God) knowing that the High Standard of God for your life is because He thinks so Highly of YOU!
8. Better to WAIT when your options are Unclear
9. Intimacy should be defined by ONLY WHAT YOU WILL DO IN PUBLIC
10. Model your life after those who are Godly and Successfully Single or Married
11. Beware Taking Advice from those whose circumstances are no better than your own.
12. Remember: There is no failure in God…Never regret a God defined experience…its treasure is WISDOM Beyond Measure.
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!
Karen Gaithers-Life Discipleship 